{"id":334,"date":"2020-08-19T09:47:49","date_gmt":"2020-08-19T13:47:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/westmichiganregional.com\/?p=334"},"modified":"2020-11-03T10:06:21","modified_gmt":"2020-11-03T15:06:21","slug":"domestic-violence-and-what-you-can-do-about-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/westmichiganregional.com\/index.php\/2020\/08\/19\/domestic-violence-and-what-you-can-do-about-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Domestic violence and what you can do about it"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/burlingtoncriminallawyers.ca\/domestic-assault\">Domestic violence,<\/a>&nbsp;or family violence, is violent, abusive or intimidating behaviour in a relationship. There are many types of domestic violence, including social, physical, sexual and emotional. If you\u2019re being subjected to domestic violence, there are a number of organisations that can offer you help and support.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">This can help if:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>you\u2019re in an abusive relationship<\/li><li>you don\u2019t know what to do about your abusive relationship<\/li><li>you don\u2019t know where to go to get help<\/li><li>you don\u2019t know what your rights are.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/au.reachout.com\/-\/media\/young-people\/images\/legacy-articles\/2-girls-sitting-on-the-sidewalk-talking.jpg?w=600&amp;hash=2994F5F2CEB0E24B223FE6049990499FDFA6883A\" alt=\"2 girls sitting on the sidewalk talking\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What is domestic violence?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>For violence to be \u2018domestic\u2019, it doesn\u2019t have to occur within your home, only within a relationship (with family or an intimate partner). It occurs when someone close to you has power and control over you. This control or abuse can be expressed in different ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Physical abuse<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If someone is hurting you physically, or is threatening to hurt you, a loved one or a pet, then you will need to take action. Read more about&nbsp;physical abuse&nbsp;and learn where to get&nbsp;support.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Emotional abuse<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Emotional abuse often goes unrecognised and can be very hurtful. Someone who is emotionally abusive towards you wants to chip away at your feelings of self-worth and independence. Read more about what<a href=\"https:\/\/www.healthyplace.com\/abuse\/emotional-psychological-abuse\/emotional-abuse-definitions-signs-symptoms-examples\">&nbsp;constitutes&nbsp;emotional abuse.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Economic abuse<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If someone close to you controls your finances, and keeps you financially dependent on them so that you always have to ask them for money, this is a form of domestic violence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Social abuse<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Social domestic violence occurs when someone insults or humiliates you in front of other people, keeps you isolated from family and friends, or controls what you do and where you go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Spiritual abuse<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Religious_abuse\">Spiritual domestic violence&nbsp;<\/a>involves preventing you from having your own opinions about religion, cultural beliefs and values. It may also involve manipulating your thoughts on spirituality in order to make you feel powerless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How can you keep yourself safe?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>An abuser may exert control by downplaying the seriousness of what they\u2019re doing to you. As a result, it\u2019s easy to underestimate the amount of danger you\u2019re in. It\u2019s vital to protect yourself from harm if you feel that you\u2019re being abused.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Decide if you\u2019re in any immediate danger<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How likely is it that someone will hurt you? Sometimes it\u2019s hard to&nbsp;work out the danger or risks yourself. If you\u2019re unsure about your safety, it\u2019s important to&nbsp;talk to someone. If you feel uncomfortable, you may have to move to somewhere safe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Get support<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Making a decision to leave a situation where you feel unsafe may be hard and scary. If possible, talk to someone you trust, such as a friend,<a href=\"http:\/\/burlingtoncriminallawyers.ca\/\">&nbsp;counsellor<\/a>&nbsp;or youth worker.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Domestic violence,&nbsp;or family violence, is violent, abusive or intimidating behaviour in a relationship. There are many types of domestic violence, including social, physical, sexual and emotional. If you\u2019re being subjected&#8230; <a href=\"https:\/\/westmichiganregional.com\/index.php\/2020\/08\/19\/domestic-violence-and-what-you-can-do-about-it\/\">Read more &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-334","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/westmichiganregional.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/334","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/westmichiganregional.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/westmichiganregional.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/westmichiganregional.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/westmichiganregional.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=334"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/westmichiganregional.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/334\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":335,"href":"https:\/\/westmichiganregional.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/334\/revisions\/335"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/westmichiganregional.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=334"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/westmichiganregional.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=334"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/westmichiganregional.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=334"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}